As a relative to a dying person, I have the right to:
  • Enjoy my own good health without feeling guilty. It is not my fault that someone I love is dying.


  • Choose whom I will talk to about my relative’s disease. If someone’s feelings are hurt because I do not wish to answer their questions, it is not my fault.


  • Know what is going on in our family, even if I am a child.


  • Be told the truth about my relative’s disease, condition and prognosis in words I can understand.


  • Disagree or get angry with someone, even if they are dying. Sickness does not stop someone from being human.


  • Feel what I am feeling, not what someone else says I "should" be feeling.


  • Look after my own needs, even if they do not seem as great as the needs of my dying relative. I can take a "time out" without feeling disloyal.


  • Get outside help for my dying relative and family members if we cannot cope by ourselves.


  • Get help for myself, even if others in my family choose not to get help.


  • Maintain hope, in whatever form that might be. No one has the right to take my hope away from me.


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